Postmasculine

I really enjoyed the article. I was already familiar with Mark Manson and the "pickup" scene, so imagine my surprise when I saw the http://postmasculine.com link on the front page of Hacker News. I highly recommend the book Models by Mark Manson [1] if you're a man at all interested in being more attractive to women. [1] - http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1463750358

I think your generalizations are ridiculously broad here. Some women are golddiggers, but those relationships are, IMHO, not worth having anyway. Why do you think such a relationship is going to contribute more to your life than spending time on things that actually make you happy? Even if all women wanted was power, we are playing a zero-sum, I-got-mine, race-to-the-bottom, everyone-loses game if we demand total devotion to status, and I don't think most women want that either. Already 25% of stay-at-home parents are men. The majority of women are now in the work force. Egalitarian marriages last longer. Things are changing, and we can help them change faster by opting out of that self-destructive game. That doesn't mean giving up on being able to find a romantic relationship, however. There is a difference between being a bum and not seeking to dominate the people around us to get ahead at all cost. I'd recommend reading http://postmasculine.com/ for the dating advice that worked best for me. Much like weight loss, there are no short cuts to becoming capable of having satisfying relationships. It is hard work to move from desperation to a place where relationships are one possible way your life could be a bit nicer, but certainly not the only one. On the other hand, I found it worth the energy.

Mark Manson put out a great explanation why people go to such extremes, he called them a "fake-alpha". [1] It happens when going from a "nice guy" with repressed anger and unmet needs to a so called "alpha-male" popularized by the modern pick-up communities. While the short-term it might be working, it doesn't actually make you a better person to live with. This can changed be with opening up more. [2] [1] http://postmasculine.com/the-fake-alpha-males/comment-page-1 [2] http://markmanson.net/power-in-vulnerability

Considering the quality of life[1] in India, I don't think it's worth it. 1: http://postmasculine.com/a-dust-over-india

You can google him. He runs a site that focuses on relationship, fashion and related issues, catering to men. http://postmasculine.com/ It's popular, and provides value within that niche. There are TONS of legitimate business possibilities that are entirely remote. Software is a big one. I've met lots of developers who travel and work remotely. I personally have a pretty decent side income in book royalties, from Amazon and a couple of affiliates. If I can ramp that up a bit, I'd consider traveling.

oh well, look at the core of his site: http://postmasculine.com/10-best-ways-to-make-money-online awesome.

This guy is yet ANOTHER self help guru sort: http://postmasculine.com/

Definitely agree that it was and still is a trend. I won't claim we were the first to distance ourselves, but I think we were the best! Our POV on what defines 'pickup' advice versus regular dating advice is that 'pickup' is the decision to objectify your sex life in order to improve it. We don't believe that this is a healthy or effective mindset, hence we don't define our material as 'pickup'. Honestly, I think if you read some more of the site, for example http://postmasculine.com/why-its-so-hard or especially http://postmasculine.com/pickup-artist (warning: long) you'd come to the conclusion that we're a far shot from what most people associate pickup with. But it's up to you whether you want to spend the time :)

I thought I was having extreme deja vu because I've read this before, but the the article was dated May 8th. Turns out I'm not a time traveler, the story was republished from the post masculine, which was posted July 10th, 2012. http://postmasculine.com/america