Melting Asphalt
meltingasphalt.com · Personal blog · on HN since 2012
Kevin Simler writes long essays on social behavior, status, belief, and meaning, and co-wrote The Elephant in the Brain.
What HN saysCommenters recommend it as a favorite blog, praising the essays on meaning, nihilism, and social status as insightful.
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Most-shared posts
- 1Ads work by cultural imprinting, not emotional inception22 people · 205 points · first shared 2014 · 98 comments on HN
- 2Going Critical18 people · 1.1K points · first shared 2019 · 70 comments on HN
- 3Crony Beliefs18 people · 142 points · first shared 2016 · 71 comments on HN
- 4Neurons Gone Wild13 people · 191 points · first shared 2014 · 37 comments on HN
- 5Social Status: Down the Rabbit Hole11 people · 44 points · first shared 2015 · 5 comments on HN
- 6Wealth: The Toxic Byproduct (2013)9 people · 183 points · first shared 2015 · 138 comments on HN
- 7Music in Human Evolution (2013)9 people · 9 points · first shared 2013 · discussion on HN
- 8A Nihilist's Guide to Meaning8 people · 331 points · first shared 2016 · 249 comments on HN
- 9Personhood: A Game for Two or More Players8 people · 151 points · first shared 2014 · 51 comments on HN
- 10Homepage7 people · first shared 2013
- 11A Codebase Is an Organism (2014)5 people · 196 points · first shared 2015 · 45 comments on HN
- 12Outbreak – playable simulations of a disease outbreak4 people · 362 points · first shared 2020 · 66 comments on HN
- 13Mr. Jaynes’ Wild Ride (2013)4 people · 30 points · first shared 2014 · 9 comments on HN
- 14Hallucinated Gods4 people · 14 points · first shared 2014 · 1 comments on HN
- 15A Natural History of Beauty4 people · 6 points · first shared 2018 · discussion on HN
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beaconstudios · 2021-11-18
Nicky's work is a joy and a blessing - one of a small number of great artists and creators online playing with systems and simulations in attempt to educate people through experimentation and play.
Other people worth checking out:
- Bret Victor (worrydream.com)
- Kevin Simler (https://meltingasphalt.com/)
- the "explorables" subreddit (https://www.reddit.com/r/explorables/)
If anyone else can recommend other writers or makers in this area, I'd love to hear about them! It's an area that I really enjoy and I hope to contribute to when I have a bit more free time.
[edit] also I'm happy about the fact that Nicky's work often has to do with systems theory, which is one of the biggest remaining frontiers of human understanding in the universe.
shime · 2021-05-27
A couple of my favorites:
- https://meltingasphalt.com/
- https://simonsarris.substack.com/
- https://ava.substack.com/
zdragnar · 2025-04-04
> What's the point of our existence if we have no way to meaningfully contribute to our own world?
You may find this to be insightful: https://meltingasphalt.com/a-nihilists-guide-to-meaning/
In short, "meaning" is a contextual perception, not a discrete quality, though the author suggests it can be quantified based on the number of contextual connections to other things with meaning. The more densely connected something is, the more meaningful it is; my wedding is meaningful to me because my family and my partners family are all celebrating it with me, but it was an entirely meaningless event to you.
Thus, the meaningfulness of our contributions remains unchanged, as the meaning behind them is not dependent upon the perspective of an external observer.
majke · 2024-07-16
„Worthwhile” is relative. https://meltingasphalt.com/a-nihilists-guide-to-meaning/
Find something you deeply believe is worthwhile. Something like volunteerinfor homeless, helping war victims, religion. Make this your anchor point.
nyolfen · 2023-06-13
the best essay i've read on the topic, much better than the op: https://meltingasphalt.com/social-status-down-the-rabbit-hole/
the author went on to cowrite a well-received pop-sci book about social signaling theory that i highly recommend as well, the elephant in the brain
code_biologist · 2022-11-27
Great article from a few years ago "A Codebase is an Organism": https://meltingasphalt.com/a-codebase-is-an-organism/
HN discussion: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20787848
ccbccccbbcccbb · 2022-04-26
I recommend everyone interested in percolation theory to also check https://meltingasphalt.com/interactive/going-critical/ and play with critical thresholds interactively!
svjatoslav · 2021-09-01
Here is excellent article that explains hidden reasons behind wide
spread phenomenon where people believe certain things or have certain
views and you cannot change those using rational arguments:
https://meltingasphalt.com/crony-beliefs/
Spoiler: It is primarily about hidden self interest. But people will
never admit it and will argue using any information they can find to
support their goal. So it is pointless to attack with logic based
counter arguments. Identify and counter actual self interest of the
opponent instead.
klaudius · 2021-05-27
DevX101 · 2020-03-02
This essay, my favorite of those I read last year, has a lot of explanatory power for cases like this:
https://meltingasphalt.com/crony-beliefs/
TLDR: People (including you and me) will believe false things if it increases or maintains our social status.
notduncansmith · 2019-10-14
I especially appreciated the following articles when I was in the throes of full-blown nihilism:
- https://meltingasphalt.com/a-nihilists-guide-to-meaning/
- https://meaningness.com/preview-eternalism-and-nihilism
- https://meaningness.com/wrong-about-nihilism
- http://cook-greuter.com/9%20levels%20of%20increasing%20embrace%20updat…
simonebrunozzi · 2019-05-15
Here's a great example, popular on HN just a couple of days ago:
https://www.meltingasphalt.com/interactive/going-critical/
elamje · 2019-05-09
Kevin Simler - https://meltingasphalt.com
Howard Marks (Finance) - https://www.oaktreecapital.com/insights/howard-marks-memos
PG of course - http://paulgraham.com/
krrishd · 2017-06-08
Right now I've been enjoying the quality of writing (as well as value of the content) on http://www.meltingasphalt.com/; it's a mix of philosophy, psychology, econ, and tech (with various other stuff sprinkled in).
Probably my favorite post from there: UX and the Civilizing Process http://www.meltingasphalt.com/ux-and-the-civilizing-process/
improv32 · 2015-11-25
You're gonna love this: http://www.meltingasphalt.com/neurons-gone-wild/
karlb · 2015-07-22
Even if music can be “auditory cheesecake,” I don't believe that that's an adequate explanation for it.
The book “Why Do People Sing: Music in Human Evolution” proposes a theory that's both outrageous but also has (I believe) a ring of truth to it.
The following article summarizes the theory: http://www.meltingasphalt.com/music-in-human-evolution/
simonsquiff · 2015-05-28
There is a must read series on Julian Jaynes's ideas here, the concept of the 'selfish neuron' in particular is fascinating http://www.meltingasphalt.com/series/
antisuji · 2015-05-23
This connection—between earning money and providing value to others—is something that sounds obvious, but I only really internalized it recently, after reading Kevin Simler's Congolese Trading Window thought experiment[1].
It would be easy to take this line of reasoning into dangerous territory and suppose that earning money is equivalent to being morally virtuous, but this neglects externalities and the sometimes fundamental difficulty of accurately pricing certain kinds of goods (subjective wellbeing, community, a sense of meaning, etc.). Money is, at best, a very rough proxy measure for human value.
[1] http://www.meltingasphalt.com/wealth-the-toxic-byproduct/
otoburb · 2014-08-08
Kevin Simler, the post author, also blogs at http://www.meltingasphalt.com/.
dkasper · 2014-05-26
The set of posts at Melting Asphalt was where I was first introduced to Jaynes. It's a great exposition of his ideas and had me pondering consciousness for weeks.
http://www.meltingasphalt.com/mr-jaynes-wild-ride/
http://www.meltingasphalt.com/accepting-deviant-minds/
http://www.meltingasphalt.com/neurons-gone-wild/
http://www.meltingasphalt.com/hallucinated-gods/
lukifer · 2013-12-28
Not a book, but a blog: Kevin Simler's exploration of consciousness, sacred experiences, and the sociological underpinnings of religion has turned my rationalist materialist perspective inside-out.
http://meltingasphalt.com
jcalx · 2024-12-13
The terms "sameness" and "average" are doing some heavy lifting here. In the grand internet tradition I will memetically unpackage "sameness" and "average" into four related components: (1) things that are BIG (2) things that are HOT (3) things that are COOL and (4) things that are GOOD.
(1) things that are BIG — these are side effects of technological advancement, globalization, the Internet, and frictionless social media platforms. More people than ever before can book a TAP Air flight to Barcelona, stay in a budget AirBnB, and check Google Maps for the same "best cafe near me" that everyone else is going to. Access to the world and to information is more open than ever before, so more people have both the ability to congregate around the top N things (physically or virtually) and the means to do so.
(2) things that are HOT — trends have always been around and always will be. Instagram face, the Kardashian look, hoverboards, heroin chic, microservices, Livestrong bracelets, putting "F*ck" in the name of your self-help book, flat icons, frozen yogurt, Dutch tulip mania — you can localize each one of these into a time period easily enough. Popular because they are new and a momentary cultural touchstone and different enough from the n-1th state of culture.
(3) things that are COOL — what you might call "signaling theory effects". "Ads Don't Work That Way" [1] explains this in the advertising context better than I can, so go read that. Differs from (2) in that the cultural…
slx26 · 2021-12-31
A couple years ago I was following random links on the internet and accidentally ended up on some blog where one guy made a comment like this:
>> I really want to make the world a better place, but in the current world I don't even know how or where would I start.
And it resonated a lot, as I've always asked myself how to make a better world too, but you can feel so helpless thinking about it! Like, doing an honest job, being nice to others and recycling is not really making the world a better place: it doesn't change the direction we are going towards, and there's always been people doing an honest job and being nice to others through history. You are just maintaining the trend of what humans do, not finding an inflection point.
I really admire Aaron Swartz, and the ideas shared in this essay are good. But I believe it's too focused on institutional politics, and through the years I've kinda developed a different view myself, so I'll share some additional, complementary ideas:
- Focus first on what you create, not what you consume. We keep trying to raise awareness on small actions for people to do X less wrong, as if putting your grain of sand on the problem currently on the highlight is going to make the world a better place, but... there are too many problems for that to be really transformational (even if it's true that the increased awareness might eventually lead to some bigger movements). We should be most morally pristine with the work we do, and stop trying to…
Quequau · 2020-07-24
I find it interesting how often stuff about Julian Jaynes and his book The Origin of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind gets posted here (and I guess on Reddit and back in the day Slashdot).
FWIW, the submission link is part four of a four part series which begins here: https://meltingasphalt.com/mr-jaynes-wild-ride/
Anyway, after reading it a couple of times and going on a major sort of semi domesticated water fowl chase which included a bunch of other authors, I've come to the conclusion that Julian Jaynes was rather hard done by and that much of the criticism of the theory of the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind doesn't exactly have respect for epistemic responsibility. Instead it's coming from folks with no direct knowledge of the work (i.e. they never read it or didn't read it with serious intention) who are instead reacting to the title / synopsis and/or what various third parties said the theory was about.
So setting that sort of criticism aside, I arrive a slightly different conclusion than: "Probably wrong — but worth reading anyway. Preposterous — but worth taking seriously." Instead I'd say "Probably not entirely wrong — but worth reading anyway. Difficult and Problematic — but very much worth taking seriously and spending the time, energy, and effort to really understand and fully consider".
Edit, now that I've made it through the whole series, let me say that it's a worthwhile read.
akkartik · 2017-10-23
(Apologies in advance for sounding harsh. I have extreme empathy for the author. But this lesson is so easy to ignore that I had to really amp up the contrast before I could focus on it myself. So it seems worth stating plainly.)
"You must have at least 10% equity in the startup to be considered a founder by Y Combinator. Only founders can come to interviews if invited or attend batch events if accepted." -- https://www.ycombinator.com/apply
If he couldn't attend, it was probably because he didn't have the requisite equity.
Joining as a founding member with less than 10% equity in a startup without a product or customers -- after being ambivalent about joining -- seems like a really bad decision.
One hard lesson I've learned over the years is that status matters. And in the startup world, equity is a huge marker of status, outside of its potential monetary reward. The initial conditions under which you join a project act as a non-negotiable upper bound on how much say your collaborators will let you have on the big picture. Regardless of how much you contribute afterwards.
Some reading on status for other aspirational-Vulcan types like I used to be:
https://news.stanford.edu/news/2007/march7/sapolskysr-030707.html
http://www.meltingasphalt.com/social-status-down-the-rabbit-hole
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003J5653Y
Tl;dr - humans are pack hunters. They can't survive outside packs, not really. As a result, the topology of the pack has a powerful warping effect on our…
josephg · 2017-05-17
I enjoyed dumping on Google earlier too. I love firebase, but I've talked two companies I've worked with out of using it for new, mission critical projects. The earlier article made me feel completely vindicated in my recommendations.
I simply have no trust that:
- Google won't randomly cancel firebase (wave, reader, etc)
- Google won't randomly, suddenly jack up the prices for firebase, leaving users in the lurch (appengine)
- When something mission critical breaks or changes, I'll have any way of contacting someone who cares, no matter how much my company is paying for the service. (Google's support forums are a pit of sorrow)
I was reading an article the other day talking about personhood[1]. It makes the point that part of being a member of society is the idea of standing. That is, if you break your word there has to be a way for you to lose out as a result. If there isn't, its impossible for anyone to enter into an agreement with you because you can't be trusted. Forming an agreement requires both sides to have skin in the game.
I don't genuinely believe that google has skin in the game when it comes to cloud services for small-to-medium customers. Its just too easy for them to drop the ball, stop answering emails and leave customers in the lurch. They've done it again and again. I'd say its the default way Google operates.
Thomas Schelling from The Strategy of Conflict:
> Among the legal privileges of corporations, two that are mentioned in textbooks are the…
jacobolus · 2015-05-28
> straddles that fine line between insanity and genius
That sounds about right. In any case, I highly recommend reading Jaynes’s book for yourself.
Daniel Dennett: “I think first it is very important to understand Julian Jaynes’ project to see a little bit more about what the whole shape of it is, and delay the barrage of nitpicking objections and criticisms until we have seen what the edifice as a whole is. After all, on the face of it, it is preposterous, and I have found that in talking with other philosophers my main task is to convince them to take it seriously when they are very reluctant to do this. I take it very seriously, [...]” http://www.julianjaynes.org/pdf/dennett_jaynes-software-archeology.pdf
Richard Dawkins: “either complete rubbish or a work of consummate genius, nothing in between.” (in The God Delusion)
etc. (cf. http://www.julianjaynes.org/julian-jaynes-theory-quotes-reviews.php)
> I can't comprehend such a state without saying everyone back then was 100% schizoid
Sounds more like a problem with “modern” models of consciousness and sanity, rather than a problem with past people. This was recently on Hacker News: http://priceonomics.com/how-culture-affects-hallucinations/
Semi-related, I like this blog post: http://www.meltingasphalt.com/personhood-a-game-for-two-or-more-player…
OgsyedIE · 2026-06-12
One of the blog posts on the evolutionary pressures for information processing I occasionally return to is Simler's Neurons Gone Wild (2013), which provides several different metaphors I've found useful for manipulating my mental models of neuron behaviour:
https://meltingasphalt.com/neurons-gone-wild/
claykkari · 2025-02-26
> Money is selfish.
I used to believe so too but after reading this I'm no longer so sure: https://meltingasphalt.com/wealth-the-toxic-byproduct/
gcr · 2025-01-05
You might also like reading about:
- A summary of Dan Dennett’s hypothesis that plurality (multiple headmates sharing one body) was common and socially accepted in ancient times: https://meltingasphalt.com/neurons-gone-wild/
- A primer from a few Google engineers who are plural and describe what that’s like, complete with anecdata, failure states, etiquette, suggestions for collaboration, etc: https://www.pluralpride.com/playbook Told through the lens of dissociative identity disorder (generalized) as an intuition pump. Audience is “sympathetic teammates who want to learn more”
- Plural communities, eg https://www.reddit.com/r/plural/top/ - anecdata of everyday experiences communicated through memes